well im 16 and love to masturbate and love girls pretty much a average perverted Guy :] butl have a.d.h.d and when im with my real partner it feels good but l dunno l either am thinking about other things or it just do not feel right cause l cant orgasm.... please help me im sure it has somethingto do with a.d.h.d almost a 100%

Just like some girls, some guys cant have a orgasm. You do not have to be ashamed! And not to be rude or all up in your business. You should not be having sex at your age and do your parents know? Sorry my motherly concern came over me!!!!!! SORRY

hmm maybe coz ur so young ur nervous?? how long have u been having sex?

or maybe u should lay of the masturbation too. that might help..

dont worry, its not the end of the world, ur only 16. you have a whole lotta sex ahead of u mate! =]

maybe you need to stop masturbating or you're not developed enough. l think you have that orgasm thing. where you can not orgasm. do not be afraid. go to the doctor no matter how embarrassing it seems.

You did not say if you had the same problem when masturbating. l doubt that ADHD has anything to do with it. You're just in too big of a hurry to get it done & over with & if it takes a little longer - then you think there is something wrong. It is not necessary to be in such a hurry to finish - take it easy - enjoy the ride.

Are u on any medication ? Strattera or Adderall can cause decreased sex drive or impotence (not likely but possible) but it does not matter really, any of these drugs can interfere with actually reaching orgasm.

If u r taking them, speak with ur doc about the situation, u may want to bring it up when mom or dad r not in the exam room.

If u r not using meds, try backing off of the masturbation. Also, try not to focus on ur orgasm so much when making love, just relax & do not force it or be so consumed with ''performing.''

PS Please say u & ur partner r using birth control !