MY heart is aching when l think about this guy why :(!!! PLEASE HELP? ?
MY heart is aching when l think about this guy why :(!!! PLEASE HELP? ?
MY heart is aching when l think about this guy why :(!!! PLEASE HELP?

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My heart is aching when l think about this guy

So there is this guy who lives in my next apartment. When l look at him through the window l get butterflies in my stomach.
When he looks at me my heart beats faster, l have this joy in my heart l feel like l am high and l wanna jump around or something;)
Before l sleep l think about him and look at him.
When l wake up he is the first thing that is in my mind and heart.
l smile when l see him and l giggle.

Every time l look in the mirror at myself l see a reflection of him looking at me :). To check if he is actually looking at me l look at him back, when l do this he seems to be walking away or looking in the other direction, but then he comes back to check if l am still looking at him, and l start to smile.

Also, in the mornings when l am getting ready for school. He walks on the streets and when l look at him he stops and looks at me and keeps walking.

He also opens his balcony and looks at me. When l look in the other direction to see the weather, he looks in the direction where l look to see what l am looking at and he looks at me.

He is not a stalker but he kind of knows l am interested, once when l was waiting for my mom in the car he rode his car right in front of mine and looked at me and rid back.

l was walking to my car and he started honk at me and then he opened his windows and looked at me.

( l also leave my curtains open so l can see him the joy of just seeing him is the greatest feeling in this world. :) )

( We also met in places coincidentally, at those times we look at each other.)

Once he pointed at me to his family member and his family member follows me sometimes to see what l am doing. Whenever his family sees me they smile.

When l arrived late home, l turned on the light and closed the curtains, l noticed him walking back and forth looking down... When he saw me he looked up and went back into his apartment.

Why do l feel this way and do you think its worth feeling.. Do you think he may be interested in me?

Girl quit fantasizing and go and ask him if he is interested or not...

It sounds like puppy love but really the only way your going to find out is if you start a simple conversation with him.

You're crushing on him and he is unsure what to think.
l would suggest that the next time you see him, talk to him! Just make sure he is not too old for you, if you are a teen.

he will never be interested in you. this rant (that does not belong in men is health) is just the tip of your iceberg. dear,,, you need professional help, the likes that your not gonna find here.

good luck,,, you need it

it is called a crush, get over it!

You do not say how old u are, & that really makes a difference. At first, it sounded like u had this super crush & l thought it was OK. Then u say something about his driving a car, rolling down the window, but still not speaking. Then u say that he pointed u out to a family member (who, his mother?) & after that his family member/s would follow u just to see what u r doing. Now it is getting creepy. Either these people r socially retarded or u r delusional. If u r a young girl someone that drives a car has no business even looking at u much less leading u on. If his family really is following you, it is a matter for the police. If u r mid to late teens, a big red flag ought to be waving about being followed. Please talk to ur parents & get their opinions. You either have a nice little romance going or u r begging for trouble & u need to find out which one before its too late.

what with this men is health category!! lol
it is a love, love that make your heart trembling..
to end this feeling, you just need to talk to him. Being calm, and self confidence, think about to talk to someone like your friend. Go talk to him, and enjoy chat with him.. then you know how his feeling about you.