l am 16 and a virgin. when l try to push it in, l can barely get it in!! what should l do?

Shove it in hard and fast without lube. Make it bleed.

More thank likely it is going to hurt until your hymen has been broken. you just have to get up enough courage to push it all the way in even though it hurts to break it and then its all smooth sailing!

You may be dealing with a hymen, which needs to be broken for penetration.

You need to play with your clitoris and get very excited first, preferably orgasm.
Then the vagina will get 'wet' with lubrication and open up to receive a penis, or dildo!
It could still hurt a bit at first, particularly if you are a virgin with a hymen, you may need to penetrate the hymen by ramming the dildo in quickly! But then you wo not be a virgin any more!

dont because then you will be loosing your virginity to a dildo if you pop your cherry (aka hymen)

rub baby oil on it and around ur butt hole or in the shower put soap on it